Seems like it's working

addons/disarming/CfgVehicles.hpp

@@ -2,14 +2,16 @@ class CfgVehicles {
     class Man;
     class CAManBase: Man {
         class ACE_Actions {
-            class ACE_Disarm {
-                displayName = "Disarm";
-                distance = 3;
+            class ACE_MainActions {
+                class ACE_DisarmInventory {
+                    displayName = "Open Inventory";
+                    distance = 4;
                     condition = QUOTE([_target] call FUNC(canDisarm));
-                statement = "";
-                showDisabled = 0;
-                priority = 3.2;
-                enableInside = 0;
+                    statement = QUOTE([ARR_2(_player,_target)] call FUNC(openDisarmDialog));
+                    icon = "\a3\Modules_F_Curator\Data\portraitRespawnInventory_ca.paa"; //todo
+                    selection = "spine3";
+                    exceptions[] = {};
+                };
             };
         };
     };

addons/disarming/XEH_postInit.sqf

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
 #include "script_component.hpp"
 
-["DisarmStart", {_this call FUNC(startDisarmTarget)}] call EFUNC(common,addEventHandler);
+["DisarmDropItems", {_this call FUNC(eventTargetStart)}] call EFUNC(common,addEventHandler);
 ["DisarmDebugCallback", {_this call FUNC(eventCallerFinish)}] call EFUNC(common,addEventHandler);

addons/disarming/functions/fnc_disarmDropItems.sqf

@@ -66,7 +66,7 @@ if (_holder getVariable [QGVAR(holderInUse), false]) exitWith {
     systemChat format ["Debug: %1 - Ground Container In Use, waiting until free", time];
     [{
         _this call FUNC(disarmDropItems);
-    }, 0.05, 0.05, _this] call EFUNC(common,waitAndExecute);
+    }, _this, 0.05, 0.05] call EFUNC(common,waitAndExecute);
 };
 _holder setVariable [QGVAR(holderInUse), true];
 
@@ -100,7 +100,10 @@ if (((count _targetMagazinesStart) - (count _targetMagazinesEnd)) != ((count _ho
 
 //Remove Items, Assigned Items and NVG
 _holderItemsStart = getitemCargo _holder;
-_targetItemsStart = ((assignedItems _target) + (items _target) + [headgear _target]);
+_targetItemsStart = (assignedItems _target) + (items _target);
+if ((headgear _target) != "") then {_targetItemsStart pushBack (headgear _target);};
+if ((goggles _target) != "") then {_targetItemsStart pushBack (goggles _target);};
+
 
 _addToCrateClassnames = [];
 _addToCrateCount = [];
@@ -127,11 +130,13 @@ _addToCrateCount = [];
 } forEach _addToCrateClassnames;
 
 _holderItemsEnd = getitemCargo _holder;
-_targetItemsEnd = ((assignedItems _target) + (items _target) + [headgear _target]);
+_targetItemsEnd = (assignedItems _target) + (items _target);
+if ((headgear _target) != "") then {_targetItemsEnd pushBack (headgear _target);};
+if ((goggles _target) != "") then {_targetItemsEnd pushBack (goggles _target);};
 
 //Verify Items Added (lazy count)
 if (((count _targetItemsStart) - (count _targetItemsEnd)) != ([_addToCrateCount] call _fncSumArray)) exitWith {
-
+    ERR = [_targetItemsStart, _targetItemsEnd, _addToCrateClassnames, _addToCrateCount];
     _holder setVariable [QGVAR(holderInUse), false];
     [_caller, _target, "Debug: Items Not Removed From Player"] call FUNC(eventTargetFinish);
 };
@@ -144,7 +149,7 @@ if ((([_holderItemsEnd select 1] call _fncSumArray) - ([_holderItemsStart select
 
 //If holder is still empty, it will be 'garbage collected' while we wait for the drop 'action' to take place
 //So add a dummy item and just remove at the end
-_holderIsEmpty = (([_holderItemsEnd select 1] call _fncSumArray) + (count _holderMagazinesEnd)) == 0;
+_holderIsEmpty = ([_holder] call FUNC(getAllGearContainer)) isEqualTo [[],[]];
 if (_holderIsEmpty) then {
     systemChat "Debug: making dummy";
     _holder addItemCargoGlobal [DUMMY_ITEM, 1];
@@ -248,7 +253,7 @@ systemChat format ["PFEh start %1", time];
         };
 
         _holder setVariable [QGVAR(holderInUse), false];
-        [_caller, _target, "Debug: Victory!!!"] call FUNC(eventTargetFinish);
+        [_caller, _target, ""] call FUNC(eventTargetFinish);
     };
 
 }, 0.0, [_caller,_target, _listOfItemsToRemove, _holder, _holderIsEmpty, (time + TIME_MAX_WAIT), _doNotDropAmmo, _targetMagazinesEnd]] call CBA_fnc_addPerFrameHandler;

addons/disarming/functions/fnc_eventCallerFinish.sqf

@@ -22,3 +22,4 @@ PARAMS_3(_caller,_target,_errorMsg);
 if (_caller != ACE_player) exitWith {};
 
 systemChat format ["Debug-Caller: Disarm finished from [%1] with code [%2]", _target, _errorMsg];
+[format ["Problem Removing Item<br/>%1", _errorMsg]] call EFUNC(common,displayTextStructured);

addons/disarming/functions/fnc_eventTargetStart.sqf

@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@
  * Nothing
  *
  * Example:
- * finishDisarmTarget
+ * eventTargetStart
  *
  * Public: No
  */
@@ -19,4 +19,20 @@
 
 PARAMS_3(_caller,_target,_listOfObjectsToRemove);
 
+_itemsToAdd = [];
+{
+    if (_x == (uniform _target)) then {
+        _itemsToAdd = _itemsToAdd + (uniformItems _target);
+    };
+    if (_x == (vest _target)) then {
+        _itemsToAdd = _itemsToAdd + (vestItems _target);
+    };
+} forEach _listOfObjectsToRemove;
+
+{
+    if (!(_x in _listOfObjectsToRemove)) then {
+        _listOfObjectsToRemove pushBack _x;
+    };
+} forEach _itemsToAdd;
+
 [_caller, _target, _listOfObjectsToRemove] call FUNC(disarmDropItems);

addons/disarming/functions/fnc_openDisarmDialog.sqf

@@ -1,3 +1,5 @@
+//openDisarmDialog
+
 #include "script_component.hpp"
 
 PARAMS_2(_caller,_target);
@@ -23,9 +25,12 @@ GVAR(disarmTarget) = _target;
     PARAMS_5(_ctrl,_xPos,_yPos,_idc,_itemInfo);
     EXPLODE_3_PVT((_itemInfo select 0),_displayText,_value,_data);
 
+    if (isNull GVAR(disarmTarget)) exitWith {ERROR("disarmTarget is null");};
+    
     systemChat format ["Debug: Droping %1 from %2", _data, GVAR(disarmTarget)];
-    [ACE_player, GVAR(disarmTarget), [_data]] call FUNC(disarmDropItems);
-    false
+    ["DisarmDropItems", [GVAR(disarmTarget)], [ACE_player, GVAR(disarmTarget), [_data]]] call EFUNC(common,targetEvent);
+    
+    false //not sure what this does
 }];
 
 //Setup PFEH

addons/disarming/functions/fnc_showItemsInListbox.sqf

@@ -39,8 +39,8 @@ PARAMS_2(_listBoxCtrl,_itemsCountArray);
             _picture = getText (configFile >> "CfgVehicles" >> _x >> "picture");
         };
     case (isClass (configFile >> "CfgGlasses" >> _x)): {
-            _displayName = getText (configFile >> "CfgGoggles" >> _x >> "displayName");
-            _picture = getText (configFile >> "CfgGoggles" >> _x >> "picture");
+            _displayName = getText (configFile >> "CfgGlasses" >> _x >> "displayName");
+            _picture = getText (configFile >> "CfgGlasses" >> _x >> "picture");
         };
     };