updated dependencies and fixed stuff

- replace serde_derive by feature of serde
   incl. source code modifications to compile
 - reduce futures-timer to "2.0" to be same as async_std
 - update notify
 - removed mio, bincode and lz4 compress in common as networking is now in own crate
   btw there is a better lz4 compress crate, which is newer than 2017
 - update prometheus to 0.9
 - can't update uvth yet due to usues
 - hashbrown to 7.2 to only need a single version
 - libsqlite3 update
 - image didn't change as there is a problem with `image 0.23`
 - switch old directories with newer directories-next
 - no num upgrade as we still depend on num 0.2 anyways
 - rodio and cpal upgrade
 - const-tewaker update
 - dispatch (untested) update
 - git2 update
 - iterations update

common/src/comp/controller.rs

@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 use crate::{comp::inventory::slot::Slot, sync::Uid, util::Dir};
+use serde::{Deserialize, Serialize};
 use specs::{Component, FlaggedStorage};
 use specs_idvs::IdvStorage;
 use std::time::Duration;